Consequences...u cannot run.

Morning! Some notes much needed in todays world.
Therefore a man leaves his father and his mother and cleave to his wife, and they become one flesh. You can read that in Genesis chapter 2 verse 24. This Unity is not only a physical Unity it is also a spiritual and emotional Unity of profound dimensions. A husband and wife joined together in marriage are people that God has joined together Matthew 19 verse 6. Sexual Union with someone other than one's own wife or husband is a specially offensive kind of sin against one's own body. You can reference that in 1st Corinthians chapter 6 verse 16, and verses 18 through 20. And within marriage husbands and wives no longer have exclusive rule over their own bodies, but share them with their spouses. Reference that 1st Corinthians chapter 7 verses 3 through 5. These are important notes. The term emotional Unity a profound dimensions wow.
Listen up please when divorce is contemplated and then a person begins down the road of adultery and fornication while married actually any time but specifically I'm talking about right now marriage. No one seems to know how to control or console anyone going through divorce or separation. I believe it's because it has extreme emotional disturbances. Now those have gone through it certainly should know this. But yet most people try to put on the best face and hide whats Within. What I'm speaking to is what's Within that people hide. An example of this would be others trying desperately to guide you console you etc. yet you begin to feel like something is going on inside your soul and spirit and heart, an emotion that even if you're in a crowd of supporters you can't seem to shake it. Well I hate to break the bad news but when we say I do to someone we're vowing a vow in front of God and the public to love honor and cherish one another until death do us part. When I break that Bond oh my goodness, internal emotion pain is unleashed. Trust me you're wasting your time if you are praying for God to help you get a divorce. I know that sounds crazy to some but I have known people throughout my life that actually believe that God wants them to be happy so He's going to support your efforts to flee a commitment. I'm speaking to the emotional aspect at this point. There are many other things to mention like the spiritual aspect and the physical aspect that I'm not speaking of it  at this time and here's why. The union between husband and wife is not temporary but it's lifelong. Two examples, Malachi 2:14 through 16. And Romans chapter 7 verse 2 . It is not trivial but is a profound relationship created by God in order to picture the relationship between Christ and his church Ephesians chapter 5 verse 23 through 32. We must all start looking at the relationship more than we look at the big wedding parties photographs and kisses and hugs. If you truly want happiness in your marriage it would be absolutely wonderful if you are born again and married a born-again person. But what if you don't? Your marriage he is always urgent in God's eyes. Saved or not saved God is not going to go back and change his reasons for creating man and wife. He did all this in their image. Their who? The Father the Son and the Holy Spirit. All three created you, created me and created your marriage and wanted us to create a family. So this should bring questions to your mind. Like what if we're already divorced and we remarry. Well let's put it this way, what a tangled web we weave, when at first we practice to deceive. How does that fit in this blog? Let's put it this way deception is what gets us divorced to begin with. We deceive ourselves that we know better than God and that we must not be married to this person after all they disappointed us and hurt our feelings. While that's probably true that is not grounds to totally wipe out what God has joined together. You say God didn't join it together? Well that's not correct. He did because of the hardness of our hearts he allowed us to get a divorce. Allowing is not condoning and it does not, now listen up carefully it does not and never will do away with the consequences of our decisions to get a divorce. God's not going to change his creation ideas Just to suit our petty excuses. I hope I don't offend anyone here but let me tell you I have experienced this for going on 47 years. It has taken me this long to truly understand the sincerity the importance and the absolute creation of marriage and what it is and what it represents. Time does not permit me to continue,so I will leave you with this. always pray for your marriage do not give up on your partner because believe me the world will tell you there's something better and God says no there's not. Consequences consequences consequences consequences. when all the people that advise you wrong have gone back to their lives, and you're left alone with your decision now welcome to consequences, because they're coming. Trust God trust his plan not our plan. Talk to you later God bless.