Stop the bleeding.

Oh my gosh. As i was studying i ran across something important. Malachi chapter 2: verses 13-16. Seems the people in this chapter were weeping at the alter because the Lord no longer accepted their offerings with favor. Why? Apparently the Lord had been a witness to marriages which they were now breaking so readily. He had intended them to be one pure people, producing godly offspring and separated from the corruption of the heathen. God hates unscriptural divorce and its resulting violence. Here is the link between Divorce and violence. Its not what you think. He sees divorce to be like covering one's garment with violence, a figurative expression for all kinds of gross Injustice which, like the blood of a murdered victim, leave their Mark for all to see. Now people, if you have ever been divorced, or know people that have, then think about it. The effects last a life time. I know God hates divorce, and so do i. It makes you feel like a murder victim.  1 in every 2 marriages in America end in divorce. Thats horrible. Our Society sees it so much, we now hear people say if you are not happy, get divorced and try again.  If your thinking about it, don't do it. Generations of your children and their children will live with the effects of it. I'm not saying dump your mate,  and go back to your kids dad or mom, you made a new vow, someone commited adultery thats true, but don't muddy the water up by divorcing again. Wow....What a tangled up mess that would be. Hold the line, seek God's help. That my friend is His will. Nothing like being on God's side and Him on yours. Notice God was extremely unhappy with these people and He withheld His blessings. It is terrible to walk around without God's favor on your life.If your separated, straighten up, and reconcile with your mate. Husbands, love your wives like Christ loves the church and gave his life for it. Wives respect your husbands, be a good help mate. Okay....i needed that. More than you know. Marriage is sacred, let No one tell you different. If there is a slight chance, save your marriage. God bless.